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R.I.P. to the Friendships That Ended Because of a New Boyfriend

R.I.P. to the Friendships That Ended Because of a New Boyfriend

Why do we give up our besties for burgeoning love interests?

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Y.L. Wolfe
Mar 27, 2025
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It’s been four months since I’ve heard from Rose. I miss her so much. I feel bad for saying this, but sometimes I wish she had never gotten engaged.

I found these words written in a journal from ten years ago. I was immediately saddened, knowing this experience all too well, but more than that, I was confused. I’m sorry t…

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